Many of us haven’t been taught that sex is actually a powerful tool for transcendental development. In fact, spiritual sex is the quickest and easiest way to have something resembling a mystical experience.

The powerful thing about sexual energy is that it’s one of the few instincts within us that can rarely be completely “civilized.” If you are tired at home from work and a friend offers you to go out to watch a movie you may pass on the offer. But if you were to meet an attractive person instead who was to make him/herself available to you, it would arouse a deep energy within you that you weren’t aware existed.

Any type of ecstatic experience – like sex – is an ideal starting point to begin cultivating spiritual moments of “no-mind” and bringing them naturally into our daily lives. I believe this goes beyond ‘’no-mind’’ experience, it is about embodying the creator that we are meant to be in this embodiment.

The notion that sexuality and spirituality are contradictory is misguided because sexual energy forms one of the cornerstones of happiness. If we ever hope to secure, long-lasting happiness and truly master the creation process, we must heal our socially conditioned distortions about sexuality. We must erase the invisible line we draw with our minds around our battalions, above which lies the greater part of human nature and under which lies the lesser. In essence, we must spiritualize sex.

But how do we redeem sexuality and elevate it to the spiritual status it deserves? How do we reconcile the square of sex with the circle of spirit when sexual pleasure is often responsible for so much shame, trauma, and pain? One place to begin searching for an answer to these questions lies in identifying the fundamental, seemingly irreconcilable differences between male and female sexuality. Those differences swiftly become apparent in the bedroom.

Through spiritual practice, both women and men can learn to integrate their sexual energy to even higher levels. Sexual vitality can be directed upward from the heart to the top of the head, where it becomes infused with the blissful quality of sacredness. And from there, sexual vitality can be circulated through the Central Meridian (the energy channel that unifies the three main energy centers) into the sky, where it is experienced as heavenly ecstasy.

Years back I read the book Think and Grow Rich, but only recently it got its way back into my life in a whole different way. According to the author, Napoleon Hill, this powerful energy can help you to manifest your greatest desires. Could sex actually help you create more abundance in your life?

I’ve discovered that for me this has been true, but I want to challenge myself to something big, a frontier for me to surrender into.

Sometimes when you ask for something big in the world you really have to strip away old shit and release big fears in order to discipline your mind so that you can create what you are asking for.  Recently I decided that I wanted to create the feeling of massive amounts of wealth and financial freedom. I notice how I instantly feel the need to erase that last sentence as I type. Why? Because in declaring this desire, shame comes up for me. Shame that people might judge me as only wanting money. Shame that I haven’t gotten there.  I strive to help others empower themselves and release shame, trauma and unneeded believe. I’ve been able to release sexual shame, but only now releasing shame around abundance, wealth and money. And I have to let go of the fears and the old stuff I’ve come to believe… so I type this here, for everyone to see! I am no longer ashamed! I am free from this shame of desiring to create such abundance for myself, just like I am free from the shame I created in regards to my sexuality.  I am creating what I want, period.

I highly recommend stop focusing on what is and invite in feelings of abundance, love, health, whatever it is that you so desire. When you change your thoughts and programs you change your current state. When you change your state transformation can happen. All it takes is an instant. A choice.

Napoleon Hill says that Sex Transmutation is the number one way to stimulate the mind to awaken the creative genius. What does that mean? It simply means that you can take sexual energy, desire, and attraction and move it through you. How do you transmute sexual energy/sensation? My favorite tool is breath. I like to use breath and visualization to draw the energy through my body and up into my brain.  This lights my brain on fire!  I’m going to use this powerful sexual energy to help awaken my brain to new creative ideas and vibrations that will shift the level of wealth that I have in my life.

Why do you think there’s so much sexual repression in religion? because it blocks the Energy flow of Creativity! Sex that remains purely sex becomes a distraction and ultimately stagnates your spiritual growth. But when sex becomes an opportunity to return to the Source and becomes a doorway of transformation to higher states of awareness – it gains a whole new way of purpose and conscious manifestation.

In-Joy,

Natasja